Overcome Your Fears
Turn 'I Could Never Do That' Into 'Watch Me'
A hypnotist's step-by-step process for doing the brave, outrageous thing you've been putting off. So you live a life full of wild, wonderful experiences.
Stop Talking Yourself Out of the Life You Actually Want
You fantasize about your dream life…moving abroad to discover a new life, quitting your mind-numbing job and starting your dream business or traveling the world, saying the bold things you want to say online and going viral and changing the world, becoming outgoing and vivacious, making friends and getting dates everywhere you go…
But you keep finding reasons not to go for it. And you keep finding yourself in the same old stuck places.
There's obviously more than willpower involved here. Here's what's happening under the surface:
You know you want excitement, adventure, new experiences, new people, love, more money, confidence…but then you keep pushing back the dream. On some level, you know you could do it, but you just…don't do it.
- You talk yourself out of it: telling yourself there's not enough money, your mom needs help so it's not the right time, you caught a cold so now you need to rest…
- Or let other people talk you out of it: some blogger online says it wasn't worth the effort so you shut it all down. Your family is worried, so you leave it alone rather than dealing with the conflict.
- You find out it will be harder than you expected: you'll have to train harder, learn new skills, sacrifice something, be alone.
- People don't understand: your friends or followers keep asking why, people are judging you, you know people are looking at you funny.
- You can't quit imagining worst case scenarios: running out of money, getting hurt, everyone abandoning you, dying alone…
Essentially, your subconscious mind is working hard to keep you in your comfort zone. It's blocking you from moving forward, because you haven't re-programmed it out of old patterns and into a new reality.
I hate seeing you miss out on incredible experiences
Because I am a very adventurous, courageous woman who's done a lot of brave things, the biggest one being my journey driving my car from Serbia to Vietnam,
I got sick of hearing all these people go, "I could NEVER do that!"
Or, "If I had [more money, no kids, more time, etc.] I would do it too!"
So instead of trying to persuade people that I'm not some superhero who got bitten by a lucky spider, I wrote a book. I thought back on my most courageous, out-there adventures, and walked through every single mental process I go through to overcome my fears.
Because yes, I do have fears. I just don't let them stop me from what I want.
And I have really good techniques to overcome them, because I am an NLP coach and a hypnotist!
The book is 76 pages of inspiring stories, sketches I made from my life on the road, and hypnotic tips and tricks you can do on yourself anytime, to get over any fear and have wild, wonderful experiences.
When you live courageously, this is what your life gets to be like:
- Full of freedom
- Untethered
- No blocks -- holding back makes the mind and body suffer
- You uplevel like a motherfucker -- nothing holds you back
- You get to see what you're capable of (it's a lot more than you think. I'm constantly amazed at myself doing things I never thought or expected I could)
- Your life is always interesting. You're not wishing it away or dissociating to a fantasy world. You're captivated by what you're doing NOW
- You're full of great stories to tell (People always tell me I have more exciting stories than most 60 year-olds)
- Memories that fill you up with awe and appreciation for everything available in this wild world
- The drive to follow curiosity and try challenges, just because it's fun
- Radical spiritual experiences that feel like you've unlocked the mysteries of the many universes
- Completely new ways of seeing yourself and everything around you
Living courageously means you have a full and wonderful life, because everything is available to you. You get to experience anything you want. I live this way, and I want you to live like this too.
Here's What's Inside
Chapter 1: Your Current Life Is Over
When you're ready for a total reset and a fresh start.
- How to get started with a big change when you're completely overwhelmed
- How to prep your subconscious mind for change (get it onboard and change will be easy)
Chapter 2: What If You Don't Know What You Want?
When you know it's time for the next big thing but aren't sure what it is yet.
- How to pave your own path when no one else has done (or documented) what you want to do yet
- Dealing with the fear of, "What if I put in all this work and effort and then I don't actually like the thing I've done it all for?"
Chapter 3: Getting Started Without Perfectionism
- A lesson I learned from a hitchhiker in Georgia: this inspiring way of life will shift you out of overthinking like it did for me
- A hypnosis trance to embody the carefree version of yourself
Chapter 4: Seven Steps to Overcome Doubt & Take Action
You don't have to go from 0 to 100. Our brains experience many micro decisions in between the beginning and the end of a creative act. I walk you through each micro step, so you have an actual formula for changing your brain to take action. (One thing at a time.)
Chapter 5: What to Do When Things Go Wrong (Part 1)
- How I laugh off most of life's disasters
- How overstaying my visa in Vietnam and having to leave my cat behind for an emergency trip to Malaysia was really not a big deal, and turned into something great. Again, step by step, how to approach a big, overwhelming situation and break it into bite-sized pieces for neuroplasticity and adaptability.
Chapter 6: What to Do When Things Go Wrong (Part 2)
- How I turn any shitty situation into pleasure
- When "envisioning the goal" just isn't a good enough motivation for really enduring tough challenges, I have an approach that's more satisfying.
Chapter 7: When to Give Up and When to Keep Going
- Making big decisions feel lighter
- What my failed attempt to walk across Laos taught me about being ok with giving up, when it's the right thing to do
Chapter 8: How to Stay Present While Working Towards a Goal
- Finding gratification in the delay
- How to keep enjoying it all when you're doing everything you can to reach a goal, but still haven't gotten there yet (aka, dealing with the boring in-between phases)
- Hypnosis techniques for viewing your life from a different perspective, and genuinely being able to romanticize exactly where you are right now
Chapter 9: Why You Need to Get Rid of Everything and Go Travel!
My case for ridding yourself of all your possessions. If your energy is tied up in a million different directions, keeping you from focusing on what you really love, this last chapter will help you get free.
As a Clinical Hypnotist, my clients keep coming to me to get help them make the moves that will change their lives for the better. In our sessions, I've helped people:
🌼 Quit a life-sucking job and go all in on their dream business,
🌼 Host an open mic to share their poetry publicly,
🌼 Move to a new country,
🌼 Ask women out on dates,
🌼 Reach out to high-potential leads to grow their business and make more money,
🌼 Be confident to post content and make their dream of being a content creator happen.
So why keep this life-changing skill private?? I want EVERYONE to know how to take action on the life they most desire. I'd love to show you how, too.
About Mia!
My psychic told me I'm an expert on courage, so I ran with it. :) In my 34 years, I have run away from a fundamentalist cult at age 18, road tripped in many parts of the US, sold all my belongings and left to travel 3 times, moved to a small town in Serbia where I didn't know anyone or speak the language, traveled by land from Serbia to Vietnam. I camp solo around the world, make great friends and have romances in the countries I visit. I've been running my own online business as a marketer and hypnotist for 6 years, completely self-sufficient with my own income.
I wanted to do more than inspire people by telling my stories, so I became a certified Hypnotist and NLP Coach. I've helped over 800 clients and students get out of their comfort zone, build and scale online businesses, and express themselves authentically and creatively. Changing your brain does not have to take years of therapy or coaching. It can happen FAST. In my work, I show you just how easy it is to make the changes you want!